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After Work, We’ll Have Each Other

By Clara Collier

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A world without necessary work may not liberate people into self-actualization. It may return them to relational societies in which identity, status, meaning, and material opportunity depend heavily on personal networks. Modern work is valuable not only for income or purpose, but because it offers a relatively impersonal route to adult dignity and independence.

Overview

Collier begins with a common prediction about advanced AI: once machines perform most economically necessary labor, humans will specialize in relationships—the “relational sector,” or perhaps relationships without conventional employment. She argues that this would resemble older social orders more than modern work culture.

Her examples are aristocratic courts, 1980s upper-class American women, and Italian-American residents of Boston’s West End. In each setting, work is not the main source of status or identity. People instead spend their time maintaining networks, monitoring reputation, gossiping, hosting, volunteering, seeking favor, and enforcing group norms. These societies can be warm and meaningful, but they are also narrow, clannish, hierarchical, and often bad at impartial institutions or collective political action.

The contrast is modern American work. Drawing on workplace interviews, the Federal Writers’ Project, and Studs Terkel, Collier argues that ordinary workers often value competence, respect, useful contribution, and recognition more than vocation or grand purpose. Employment supplies a social framework in which people can earn dignity through what they do rather than through family, class, or connections.

She closes by defending commercial society and liberal individualism. Impersonal markets and work reduce dependence on kin and allies, making freer forms of friendship possible. Collier is uncertain whether AI will actually produce a more relational society, but she is worried that eliminating work could revive the social pressures and exclusions that modern labor helped weaken.

Core ideas

Post-work could mean more relationships, not more freedom

If paid work stops organizing life, people still need status, belonging, structure, and recognition. Those needs may be met through social networks—making relationships more central, demanding, and politically consequential.

Relational societies turn status into reputation management

At Versailles, in elite nonprofit circles, and in the West End, people’s standing depends on alliances, family, loyalty, conformity, and perceived propriety. Gossip is not merely idle talk; it is a way of tracking and enforcing the social order.

Warm communities can also be restrictive

Close-knit groups provide companionship and mutual support, but they police outsiders and unconventional ambition. The same dependence that creates belonging can suppress mobility, experimentation, leadership, and individual choice.

Work offers impersonal dignity

People often value jobs because they feel competent, useful, respected, and part of a team—not because the work is a calling. Work lets someone earn recognition through skills and contributions rather than inherited position or social connections.

Modern work weakens personal dependency

Commercial society allows people to support themselves through impersonal exchange instead of relying entirely on family, patrons, or clan. That independence makes friendships less transactional and personal relationships freer.

AI’s cultural effects are uncertain but not unknowable

Collier rejects confident forecasts about technology transforming society wholesale. Instead, she uses historical case studies to identify plausible patterns: removing work may strengthen older relational dynamics, though the outcome will depend on institutions and starting conditions.

Practical takeaways

Caveats and counterpoints

Questions worth revisiting

Return to this when…

Return to this essay when thinking about AI and post-scarcity society, universal basic income, the meaning of work, loneliness and community, the tradeoff between social belonging and individual independence, or the design of institutions for a world with much less employment. The most useful reminder is that abolishing work would remove one social system—not human needs for status, structure, usefulness, and recognition.

References

  1. After Work, We’ll Have Each Other—Asterisk